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Life’s all about moments of impact and how they changes our lives forever.
But what if one day you could no longer remember any of them?

 Yesterday I re-watched The Vow, a film about a woman who suffers from anaemia after a car accidents, and her husband’s fight to get her to fall in love with him all over him again. When I saw the film in the cinema, I must admit I cried, the story is so heart-wrenching. Imagine my horror then when I realised that the film was based on a true story.

I know it’s pretty cliché to write a blog post about a film, but I think we can make an exception because a) I watch a lot of films so it was bound to happen at some point and b) because this film was based on a true story. Something about this film deeply disturbed me. The thought that I could wake up any day and lose Paul or any of my loved ones is a very sobering one. I know this idea is thrown around a lot, but when you actually stop and think about it, it changes the way you act. It means that I actually take thirty seconds to give my husband a proper goodbye, and I never want to sleep on my anger. It feels like I’ve heard a lot of stories of tragedy lately, it’s easy to let those things roll off my back, safe in the certainty something like that would never happen to me.

The other thing that stopped me in my tracks about this film was thinking about how you manage to come to terms with such a tragedy. Not even just come to terms with it, but to actually find the strength day in, day out to fight for your marriage. That is real love. I got the answer to my questions when I looked up the book. The couple managed to get through such a tough trial through their faith in God.

If you haven’t guessed already, I am on my way to Amazon to order the book. As a newly wed I am always on the lookout for couples whose faith has strengthened their marriage, especially in times of trials and suffering. Expect more posts…

Love Katie x

 

The Vow (DVD + UV Copy) [2012]

The Vow  [Paperback]

The Vow: The True Events that Inspired the Movie  [Kindle]


Day one in the Davies (or should that be NaNoWriMo) household, Katie is writing… That was supposed to be said in the Big Brother voice, or at least that’s how it sounded in my head.

My novel has got off to a good start so far. I have managed to bang out 3809 words today and it’s only 7:50pm. This is due largely to the fact that my health is very, very bad today. I know that sounds like an oxymoron, all shall be revealed.

Today is one of those days where I feel like I have lived a week in twelve hours. My health has been up and down all days, some of the time, like now, I feel ok, my legs are aching so I’m stuck in bed, but I am able to write, even though I cannot concentrate on reading or studying. At some points of the day however, I have been desperate to fall asleep because I just felt so sick. I don’t really know how to explain the extreme exhaustion, pain and sickness, except to say that if my mum were near, I would cry like a baby for her to come cuddle me when I feel like that.

I have been alone almost completely all day so to ward off any depression and negative thought cycles, I have just kept my novel on my mind. I haven’t been well enough to write all of the time, but I have been thinking of Ally all day long, meaning that when I can write, I have so much in my mind my fingers can’t type fast enough.

When I woke up this morning, I felt so far away from being able to focus on anything, let alone begin a novel, but I had prepared for this with two age-old writer’s tools:

Morning pages

I have heard many names for this, but essentially I just wrote about something other than what I was working on. Some writers, as I did, write journals to wake up their creative mind. It’s like sport, you can try just running, but you’re more likely to do a lot better if you stretch your muscles and focus your mind on the task ahead.The first thing you write at the beginning of the day is likely to be the worst thing you write that day so it’s a good idea to not put that in your novel.

Music

Background noise, providing it is not too loud can help a writer get into the scene or into their character’s head. I am writing about an angry, hurt, and rejected woman so I flicked through my iPod to find all the music I used to listen to as a teenager when I was feeling that way. This immediately puts me in the right place to think and feel the way Ally does. Certain songs remind us of certain feelings, it’s a good idea to harness this for my writing. On the other hand, if I listen to Ben Howard, I am going to feel calm and happy. I haven’t used it yet, but I also downloaded an the Ambiance app, which has a huge library of different sounds. I am planning to use these for certain scenes. So for example, if my character is taking a country walk, I can create a playlist of various wildlife sounds to help my mind picture what is happening.

 

One of the things I want to do this month is to use my intense novel writing to try out different writing techniques. Today I used journaling to warm up, perhaps I’ll stick with that for about a week before moving on to something different. I am doing the same with where I write. I was able to get out of the house to go to the library to write for an hour today, which was great because I have never tried writing there before. It went well, I was free from distractions and comfy on the new sofas. I’m not sure I’ll be able to get to the library every day for a week but I’ll try going there to write a few times, before moving on to a new venue. Obviously I tried writing in my bed too, but that doesn’t count as an experiment since I always write here (yup I’m there right now). By the end of this month I should have a good idea about my writing habits- where and how I work best.

Have you got any writing techniques or venues you use or have heard of that I could try out?

Love Katie x

P.s. My new blogging buddy Amelia is NaNoWriMo rebel because she is using this month to continue with her memoir about life with cerebral palsy.She is posting the whole thing on her blog day-by-day. I read the first installment today and felt positive I had to share it with you, it is a fantastic first draft. Check it out here.

You can find out more about my novel  and keep up to date with my progress on my NaNoWriMo page.


You must have begun to think I’d given up on this blog. Fear not, I am still alive and writing blogs, but only at night in my mind when I can’t sleep. So much has passed since I last took out a notebook and pen to write, I think that is probably part of the reason why you have seen new posts.

P and I did successfully manage to move, and it was even worse than we had anticipated. Mainly because the sheer amount of things we have managed to accumulate is incredible. I tried to be as ruthless as possible with getting rid of un-neeeded things, but still we had so much stuff to move that it took 5 trips in my dad’s 4by4. I have since spent a lot of my bedbound mornings running a monologue debating the reasons why we have such a lot of things. I’ll spare you the whole speech, and just drill down to the foundation the reason we have so much stuff is that we spend so much time at home.

Most students keep some of their things at their term-time address, and the rest in their bedrooms at their parents house, but because we usually live in Cardiff all year round, we moved basically everything we own to our new address. Secondly, and this is probably the more accurate reason, when you have periods of time where you’re stuck indoors for days on end, you need a lot of entertainment. For example, it can be awkward for P to find time to go to the gym so he has weights and an exercise bike in the house so he can workout whenever he wants, even if I’m really sick. We don’t have an more than a normal amount of clothes, shoes, or handbags (that’s me, not Paul), but my goodness do we have a lot of books. As the kind of people who want to know everything about everything (nothing is boring to me), we have a lot of reference books (including an encyclopedia published the year of my birth), academic books for university, and classic novels (my favourite) so not the kind of books you get rid of- they’re keepers. To add to this, we have two stackers full of DVDs and more, even though we had a clear out of the DVDs we never watch! We love films, and watch at least one everyday, I’m “watching” one right now (multi-tasker), especially on my bedbound days.

What takes up most of the room though are my craft things. I am terrible at starting lots of new projects, and not finishing them. Since I forgot to bring any craft projects home with me, I begun even more new ones since I arrived back here. My mummy is really into crafting too, so she’s been throwing an abundance of new ideas at me with her collection of books and ideas diary. She’s given me free reign of her extensive resources too!

In case you haven’t caught on already, Paul and I did decide to move home for the summer to save money. One of the things I like best about being at home is going to patchwork group with my mummy and nana. I love patchwork blankets, cushions, bags, etc, and have always wanted to be able to do it. I am hoping that this will be the summer that I finally get to grips with my sewing machine and make some patchwork projects, especially while I have been allowed unlimited access to the massive stock of material my mummy and nana have.

Anyway, this post has become a garble of ramblings. Fingers crossed, I shall manage to get to my parents’ computer more often from now on. I thought that coming home would mean oodles of free time but so far I’m struggling to fit everything into my diary, not completely convinced we will save any money or I’ll get any rest if we don’t start restricting ourselves!

Love Katie x



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