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This blog was written by Paul but dictated by Katie.  For the foreseeable future, because of Katie’s illness, this will be a common format here at Chronically Katie.

Firstly, let me apologise for the lack of content on here over the last few weeks. As I’m sure you’ve guessed, I’ve been very ill for some time now. The ‘brain fog’ which is associated with my illness has been worse than ever. It’s got so bad that I’m struggling to read, or even listen to audio books. These are the kinds of activities which is usually fill my life with when I’m stuck in bed 24/7. The most worrying development associated with this has been that I’m seriously struggling to hold conversations. It’s not because I can’t concentrate, it’s because I literally haven’t been able to understand what people are saying. When my husband speaks to me, it’s like he’s speaking another language.

As you can imagine, these recent developments have made it impossible for me to write my own blog posts. That’s why Paul is writing this one for me. I’m relaying to him everything I want said, so this is still me, but he’s helping by putting my mumblings into sentences.  This is going to be a common format for this blog over the next few weeks. I’ll let you know at the beginning of each post whether I’m writing it myself or whether Paul is acting as my scribe.

 

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I’m not going to to let my illness beat me. I’m especially not content to let my illness stop me from doing what I enjoy. To get around this new wave of ‘brain fog’, I’m going to be making more videos on my YouTube channel. I’m really looking forward to exploring this alternative media format. I’ve already got a few videos on my channel. Please don’t forget to check them out and let me know your thoughts on them. I’m very new to vlogging, so it would be great to get some constructive feedback.

At the moment, I’m working a lot on creative outlets so be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss anything.

 

Giveaway coming soon!

Another exciting development here at Chronically Katie is that soon I will be announcing a competition giveaway. I will be revealing the prize in a later post, but what I can tell you is that it will be well worth your attention. The deal will be that only my subscribers can enter. Make sure you do subscribe to the blog now so that you don’t miss out later. You can subscribe by entering your email address into the sidebar tool. If you’re not sure whether you’re already a subscriber- do you get an email each time I post a new article? If not, then you’re not currently a subscriber.

Keep your eyes out, over the next few weeks, for more details regarding the giveaway.

As ever, thanks for reading, watching, and/or subscribing.

Love Katie x

P.s. Are you on Tumblr or Instagram? I post there regularly throughout the day, follow me by clicking the links below.

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A quick message from Paul: Knowing how much Katie loves to get mail, many of you have been asking for Katie’s address so that you can send her stuff. We haven’t been able to establish a P.O. Box yet, so we can’t publish her address online, but you can email Katie at chronickatieblog@gmail.com to request her home address. Getting mail from her readers always gives Katie a massive boost, so I can’t encourage you enough to get in touch.


Still smiling with a takeaway Costa & cuddles with Didi

“You’d be forgiven for thinking that I’d abandoned this blog, but you wouldn’t be right, very far from the truth in fact. Although I have been working a lot on Chronically Katie in my mind, very little of it has appeared on your monitor because I’ve been too unwell. For the last two months I have suffered from one illness after another, aside from my usual chronic illness of course.”

Unfortunately this is as much as Katie has been able to write over the last few weeks. As she says above, Katie has been extremely ill for the best part of two months now. There’s been a real battle going on behind the scenes here at Chronically Katie. She’s winning the fight, but as with any war, victory is hard fought and there are have been many injuries along the way.

Katie has asked me to step in and catch you up on what’s been going on. Quite a few technical changes are taking place at the moment. I’ve been working on moving the site to a self hosted platform and there are going to be changes in blog layout and design. This is all very exciting, however, it’s taking it’s time because I have no experience in all this. I’m teaching myself what to do as I do it. We’re asking that you bare with us while these renovations are taking place.

On a positive note, Katie is hoping to do a video blog sometime soon, so keep an eye out for that. To make sure that you don’t miss anything, you can subscribe to Katie’s You Tube channel.

My final update is that if you wish to send Katie anything in the mail, you can request her address by emailing chronicallykatieblog@gmail.com. You can send products for her to review, or something little to make her feel better when she’s so sick. She’s spending most days in bed so I know she’d love to hear from her readers. Feel free to send her anything from a postcard to a little gift. She loves receiving mail so it’s sure to bring a smile to her face.

Thanks for your patience,

Paul (Katie’s husband)

 


You can just see Didi poking out from behind my laptop, watching me work.

   You can just see Didi poking out from behind my laptop, watching me work

I’m back after a week offline. Although I was fasting the internet for a specific reason I learnt a few things along the way. Firstly, I actually enjoyed the week a lot more than I expected to. When I’m feeling to ill to do anything much of value, Twitter and Facebook are my go-to. With that option closed off I found that I spent a lot more thinking creatively, I now have a whole buffet of ideas for this blog in the coming weeks.

I also sent a lot more texts. I am notoriously bad for never answering my phone and taking ages to reply to texts. Without Twitter to fill those times when you’re waiting for someone to arrive or waiting for dinner, I decided not only reply to texts but actually even initiate text conversations. 

I read a lot more. I spend quite a lot of time reading blogs and watching TV online, but with long blocks of time in bed without these two comforts, I turned to books. I read every night before bed, but for the last week I’ve read a lot more. I even finished one book within a couple of days. 

Most importantly, I prayed more. That was one of the main reasons for my fast, and it worked. Every time I felt myself reach for my phone or iPad, I began talking to the man upstairs. This is one change I’d like to continue now that the fast is over. I am sure in years to come I’ll be much more grateful for time spent in prayer, than I am for time spent reading tweets.

I’m not the only one that feels they have benefited from their time offline. P, who did the fast with me, said that this week really opened his eyes to quite how many times he must use the internet a day. I love my husband, I really do, he has many, many great points, but if I had one gripe with him, it would be that he spends far too much time on Twitter and BBC sport. He has promised that he’ll change this now that our fast is over. That’s something I’ll be holding him to.

Although I would never go offline completely, I’m a blogger for goodness sake, I will be watching my internet habits a lot more from now on. I also think it’d be good to challenge myself to an internet fast a least four times a year, to make sure I don’t just slip back into my old ways.

Looking to the future now, it’s pancake day next Tuesday, which means lent is only a few days away- on to the next challenge!

Love Katie x


Hey there readers, you must be excited to see me twice in one day. Well, I’m afraid this will be my last appearance for a week as I am taking an internet fast. I won’t be using the internet for anything except essentials for a whole seven days, that’s going to be a toughie for me. I haven’t even scheduled posts to appear while I’m offline because I felt like that would be cheating. Take the opportunity to flick through some old posts if you miss me, especially if you haven’t been a reader since the blog started, there’s a few golden oldies in the archives. You can look forward to seeing me next Saturday to hear all about how it went.

In the mean time remember…

You are loved

 

Love Katie x

P.s. What do you think of the new colours and background? Prefer the old one or like the changes?


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I have decided to do something this November that I have been wanting to do for years. I have finally decided to take the plunge and do NaNoWriMo. If you’re not a writer you’re probably thinking I accidentally sat on my keyboard or if you’re English, you probably think that’s a Welsh word. Both are wrong, NaNoWriMo is an abbreviation of National Novel Writing Month. It began in America so is now actually international, but aside from that, the title is pretty self-explanatory. For the month of November, people pledge to write an entire novel (defined as 50,000 words). Most people try to write 2,000 words so that they have a little bit of manoeuvre room.

Whenever I think about what I am really about to attempt, I begin to wonder how the heck I am going to manage it, but I am absolutely determined to do this. I used to write everyday simply because I love it, and although I am still writing non-fiction regularly for this blog and my column, I really miss writing fiction. I just can’t seem to find the motivation for fiction anymore. As NaNoWriMo founder Chris Baty writes in No Plot? No Problem!,’the biggest thing separating people from their artistic ambitions is not a lack of talent. It’s the lack of a deadline.’ I don’t think my novel will be amazing, in fact most participators never actually read the novel they wrote. The reason I am doing this challenge is because I need to prove to myself that I can actually write everyday and produce a novel on a deadline, i.e. that I might actually have what it takes to be a writer.

I am not going to this blind-sided. I am making some preparations, I don’t just mean as in planning my novel and working on characters. I am reading Chris Baty’s book which I mentioned, reading lots of articles online and watching the NaNoWriMo youTube videos. I am planning to split my 2,000 daily words into either three or four writing sessions. I did a quick time check yesterday and it should take me about 15-20 minutes to write five hundred words, although this obviously depends on how well I get into the writing flow. Yes writer’s flow an actual thing, no matter how cheesy it sounds. I am hoping that by 9.30am each day I should have at least five hundred words down.

One of the great things about being in university is that I can also be apart of the NaNoWriMo group. I can make friends and get motivation and support. No one wants to be the first one in the group to quit…

I know this is still going to be a huge challenge but this is something I really want to achieve. I keep picturing how I will feel come the 1st December when despite my tiredness I will have written my first novel. I was talking to Paul earlier about what my undertaking this challenge will mean for him, and I realised quite how much I want to do this. If I end up giving up, you can expect one very unhappy post from me. So the less posts you see from me for the next month, the better you know my novel will be going. I’m off to make a visual board for my novel!

Love Katie x

Are any of you thinking of doing Nanowrimo too?


I recently saw the above picture on one on my favourite blogs- Victoria Writes- and it, along with Victoria’s post struck with a chord with me. To say my posts on here have been sparse would be a gross overstatement, due to the fact that I haven’t felt up to writing. In a lot of ways, my health has improved since I began this blog, at least I’m able to leave the house a lot. In other areas, such as my concentration, the amount I’m sleeping, and my ability to study/write has remained the same or declined. I have half written many blog posts and stories in my mind, but whenever I have tried to put pen to paper or finger to keyboard, my energy has just felt too sapped. I am still spending all my time in bed when I am at home. Unlike before, I haven’t been able to read or write barely at all though. Thinking that it was just some of kind of mental block, I resolved to write through it a couple of days ago. I forced out words onto the page of my journal, but only managed a couple of sentences before I needed to sleep. Even now, the words feel forced, incoherent and unflowing, but hey, I’ve managed a lot more than before!

Anyway, these difficulties have left me very frustrated with this blog. Just as my readership was doing well and I was getting new readers from the Cosmo Blog Awards, I’ve stopped writing. I did begin to wonder whether the blog has run its course, but now I’m reconsidering. Maybe my blog has left the infancy of the days when the blog posts seem to write themselves and now it’s being ushered into a new chapter. A lot will be changing for me in the next couple of weeks- I’ll be resitting my second year, having failed to sit even one exam this summer, and biggest of all I’ll be starting married life! And, there is so much of my life which has been missed out in the last couple of weeks. For instance, you must be wondering how the heck two students, one with severe chronic conditions, plan and pay for a wedding. And, what will our honeymoon look like? Even as I’m writing this post, I’m becoming more convinced that Chronic Katie is far from being over. There is so much more I have to tell about what living with a chronic illness is like, particularly in areas which, to my knowledge, have never been discussed in public- student life in university, the benefits process, roles within marriage, how to be a wife, and even sex. Sometimes the path I have yet to pave seems daunting when I think about all that is ahead, but when I consider the fact that I’ll have God with me, I just get excited for all the opportunities I have ahead of me.

I hope you’ll keep reading to see where this Chronic Katie’s life goes next.

Love Katie x

p.s. The Cosmo Blog Awards voting closes this Friday 31st August. Please, if you enjoy this blog, consider voting for me in the Lifestyle Blog section, and help me spread awareness about life with chronic illness. A huge thank you to those of you who have already voted, whatever the results, I appreciate each and every vote.


Thanks so much to walkingthroughpain and Ginger Ray who both nominated me for The Sunshine Award! This is my very first blogger award and I get two nominations within a couple of days of each other, you know what they say about buses…

Anyway, you can read a bit more about the award below, and the mandatory questionnaire will help you learn a bit more about me outside of my illness.

Here are the rules:

1. If you are nominated, you must blog a post linking back to the person/blog that nominated you.

2. You must answer some questions, nominate ten fellow bloggers and link their blogs to the post!

3. You should comment on your nominees’ blogs to let them know you’ve nominated them.

So, here are the questions:

1. Who is your favorite philosopher?

Can I say Jesus?

2. What is your favorite number?

I can honestly say I don’t have one.

3. What is your favorite animal?

That’s easy- penguins! I absolutely love them.

4. What are your Facebook and Twitter URLs?

I’d rather not give out my Facebook URL but you can find a link to my Twitter in the right hand tool bar.

5. What is your favorite time of the day?

Late morning as that is when I am at my most awake and productive.

6. What was your favorite vacation?

It wasn’t really a vacation, but my trip to plant a new Church in Brugge was amazing. It took faith for me to undertake such a trip and God came through. I am also thankful to my Church leaders at Freedom who had enough  faith in me to send me there.

7. What is your favorite physical activity?

I don’t get to do it for pleasure anymore but walking.

8. What is your favorite non-alcoholic drink?

Coffee!

9. What is your favorite flower?

Tough choice, but right now I’d say sunflowers. I can see why Van Gogh wanted to paint them, you can’t help but feel happy looking at them.

10. What is your passion?

Jesus and Politics are the things that make my heart beat faster.

And, that’s it! All that’s left is for me to award ten new bloggers with the Sunshine award. I don’t have the time or energy to read many blogs so I have only nominated five people. I know that it is breaking the rules, but I thought it would be better to nominate five bloggers I really do love than whap down another five just for the sake of it. Only one of these five bloggers suffers from a chronic illness, the others are writers. I’d encourage you to check out their very varied and interesting blogs:

My first nominee has to be my very talented sister, Sara Bennett- http://uninterruptedmusings.blogspot.co.uk/

Concrete Moomin- concretemoomin.wordpress.com

Victoria- http://victoria-writes.com/

Tom Basson- http://tombasson.wordpress.com/

Lisa Rivero- http://www.lisarivero.com

Phew! All done. I hope to post again soon, when wedding plans and health permit…

Love Katie x


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Sometimes God’s timing can be quite comical. Last Wednesday I was watching Julie and Julia and thinking how it gave me some sort of inspiration. Not that I write blog posts about the same topics, or that we began our blogs for the same reason, or even that I think one day my blog will lead me to become a published author. But, in the sense that Julie began her blog for a reason, namely to de-stress herself after work through cooking and give herself something to work towards, and she had no idea that her blog will lead her to become a published author, and then have that book made into a film. I began my blog with the idea of trying to explain how invisible illnesses really affect people, and to raise awareness about conditions like fibromyalgia, and I had no idea how many views I would get (tons more than my other blog) and that readers would send me so much encouragement and so many compliments. I really have been shocked. 

Well I was just thinking all of this as I logged onto WordPress to type up a blog post when I realised that I had been short listed for the Cosmo Lifestyle Blog Award (no I will not shut up about that). Ok, it’s not as massive as what happened to Julie, but to me, it’s getting more people to read my blog than ever before. The timing just gave me a bit of a chuckle.

As if that hasn’t been enough encouragement to my writing, I also received an email to say that my application to be a columnist for my university newspaper has been successful. Again, it’s not as if I’m going to be a columnist for The Times or even like I’m getting paid, but the competition was so fierce that I thought I didn’t have much chance of getting it, especially because I’m hardly the typical student. I am so excited about starting my columns in September. I have wanted to be a columnist for years and years. Even though I am sure this will make many of you cringe, my dream of being a columnist is part of the reason I love Sex and the City so much. Maybe I don’t want to write about sex (scratch the ‘maybe’ from that sentence), and I don’t wear Manolo Blahniks, but I love the idea of writing about life’s little stories that happen everyday.

Right now I’m feeling very positive about my writing. And to think that if I’d never have gotten into this very bad patch of my illness, this blog wouldn’t exist. I always underestimate the rollacoaster life of adventure God has for me. The life of a Christian spoonie is never boring.

Love Katie x



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