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I recently read a blog by one of my great friends, Sian Cooke, which inspired me so much I opened up a blank document, the second I read the last full stop. Her blog post was about not allowing the mundane to plague your life.  Right now I’m in a difficult patch, as I talked about in my last post, and when you’re in a situation like this it seems like the best thing to do is to bring down the hatches and do nothing other than what is necessary. The temptation is to adopt the victim stance.

I’m not planning on doing either of those things though. I’m not going to pile on too much and make the situation worse, but I won’t be sticking to the mundane, and abandoning my love of curiousity and doing new things. As best as we can, P and I are sticking to weekly dates and I’m looking for at least one new thing to do each week. I’m not feeling sorry for myself, instead I’m focusing on everything I am thankful for. I am being honest about the situation I am in, without allowing it to control me. I cannot control mine and P’s sickness but I can control my response to it.

I will…

  •  keep the romance alive in my marriage
  • stay passionate and enthusiastic about my degree
  • do my best to give as well as take in my friendships
  • fill my days with fun and laughter
  • love my God and put him at the centre of my life. I will continue to trust that His plan for my life is the best plan, and trust that He can use all my suffering for good.

Don’t give in to your sickness, take back control! Now is not the time to give up, it’s time to fight harder than ever for the life you want.

 

Love Katie x


As you read in my last post I recently came down with a virus/sickness/migraine thingy. Anyone who knows me well (or follows me on Twitter) will know that although I’ve had lots of practice, I am a big wimp when it comes to being ill. Have you seen that episode of Big Bang Theory when Sheldon is sick? Yea that’s me. I am very prone to self pity and sadness. In order to cheer myself up last week I made a list of all of the things. I thought you might appreciate me sharing this list here so you can steal some ideas next time you’re ill.

Things that make me smile when I’m sick:

  • Getting sympathy. Thankfully, God has given me a husband with a lot of patience and compassion so he’s happy to dole out cwtches* and sympathetic nods of the head on request. 
  • Getting some perspective. The antidote to the above. Being sick makes me self-centred, I need to be reminded that there are much bigger problems in the world than my migraine. 
  • Watching movies. One night P treated me to renting a movie online so that I had something new to watch. We picked Brave, a Disney Pixar animation. Doctors should prescribe Pixar movies, they’re that good.
  • Learning something new, however big or small. I wasn’t able to be very productive last week, most of the time I just sat there moaning because everything I tried seemed to hurt my head. I did, however, learn some healthy new recipes on Pinterest (follow me here) and find out about Smash books (watch out for a post about this soon).
  • Didi. Just anything to do with my cute ball of fluff. Well, pretty much anything anyway. While I write this she is sleeping on my lap and making sweet noises out of frustration when she is disturbed by my typing. What a cutie. There is actually research now that proves that petting and interacting with animals can help patients recover from a whole variety of illnesses. My doctor friend told me that in a hospital in Bristol they actually let a charity bring dogs on to the wards for patients. How amazing is that?
  • Having a bath, especially if there is a Lush bath bomb or bubble bar in it. Although baths completely sap my energy, the warm water can be exactly what I need to get me to a point where I am relaxed enough to fall asleep. Plus, waking up clean and smelling nice always has a feel good factor.
  • Clean pjs and bed sheets. The perfect end to a bath. You can’t beat that smell of fresh linen.
  • Candles. Yankee candles are my favourite, they smell so good!
  • Pink flannel pjs. Comfort and my favourite colour.

What makes you smile when you’re sick?

Love Katie x

*Cwtches- if you’re not Welsh you probably have no idea what this word means. Think of a hug but a million times better. 


As you read in my last post I recently came down with a virus/sickness/migraine thingy. Anyone who knows me well (or follows me on Twitter) will know that although I’ve had lots of practice, I am a big wimp when it comes to being ill. Have you seen that episode of Big Bang Theory when Sheldon is sick? Yea that’s me. I am very prone to self pity and sadness. In order to cheer myself up last week I made a list of all of the things. I thought you might appreciate me sharing this list here so you can steal some ideas next time you’re ill.

Things that make me smile when I’m sick:

  • Getting sympathy. Thankfully, God has given me a husband with a lot of patience and compassion so he’s happy to dole out cwtches* and sympathetic nods of the head on request. 
  • Getting some perspective. The antidote to the above. Being sick makes me self-centred, I need to be reminded that there are much bigger problems in the world than my migraine. 
  • Watching movies. One night P treated me to renting a movie online so that I had something new to watch. We picked Brave, a Disney Pixar animation. Doctors should prescribe Pixar movies, they’re that good.
  • Learning something new, however big or small. I wasn’t able to be very productive last week, most of the time I just sat there moaning because everything I tried seemed to hurt my head. I did, however, learn some healthy new recipes on Pinterest (follow me here) and find out about Smash books (watch out for a post about this soon).
  • Didi. Just anything to do with my cute ball of fluff. Well, pretty much anything anyway. While I write this she is sleeping on my lap and making sweet noises out of frustration when she is disturbed by my typing. What a cutie. There is actually research now that proves that petting and interacting with animals can help patients recover from a whole variety of illnesses. My doctor friend told me that in a hospital in Bristol they actually let a charity bring dogs on to the wards for patients. How amazing is that?
  • Having a bath, especially if there is a Lush bath bomb or bubble bar in it. Although baths completely sap my energy, the warm water can be exactly what I need to get me to a point where I am relaxed enough to fall asleep. Plus, waking up clean and smelling nice always has a feel good factor.
  • Clean pjs and bed sheets. The perfect end to a bath. You can’t beat that smell of fresh linen.
  • Candles. Yankee candles are my favourite, they smell so good!
  • Pink flannel pjs. Comfort and my favourite colour.

What makes you smile when you’re sick?

Love Katie x

*Cwtches- if you’re not Welsh you probably have no idea what this word means. Think of a hug but a million times better. 


Phew! It feels good to be back in the land of the living. By that I mean the last week or so has felt as though I am approaching death. Well perhaps that is an overstatement… P and I both caught some kind of illness, sickness, virus, flu, whatever you want to call it. I think it has been years since we were both that unwell. Of course since we were both unwell it felt as though we just hobbled along each day, both of us managing to do what we could. Today is the first day that I have managed to get dressed in over a week! Although I got the migraine far more badly than P did, he seems to not be able to bounce back at all. He is exhausted all of the time, and I feel completely useless, unable to take the burden of duties like cooking from him. As he isn’t particularly unwell he feels like he must continue working on his essays and going to work. He is such a trooper. I am so lucky that I married a man who will never give up.

Silver Valentine heart

I think the silver heart matches
my pink pjs perfectly

Valentine’s Day

With me barely able to lift my head off the pillow and unable to stand the stand the sound of speaking, and P sleeping most of the day, our first Valentine’s day as a married couple was not exactly how we had imagined. The most romantic that things got was when P passed me a tissue. We did exchange gifts though. We had decided to have an ethical Valentines so our gifts had to have some kind of ethical edge, for example the gift would be fair trade or would be handmade. I was given a beautiful silver heart necklace, which I absolutely adore. Once we are both up to scratch we are hoping to have a belated V-day since it is one of my favourite holidays.

 

Shrove Tuesday & Lent

One of the highlights of last week though was Shrove Tuesday or Pancake day. For those of my readers who don’t know what this means, it is the day before Lent begins. Pancakes were originally made to use up all of the “luxuries” (butter, sugar, etc) one would have in the cupboard before the beginning Nutella crepes (2)of lent, where people restrain from such things until Easter. I won’t go into more detail here, I’m sure there are lots of places on the internet that can explain it better than I. Anyway, the lovely moment was that P made me Nutella crepes, one of my favourite things, in the shape of hearts. I didn’t even ask him, he just did it to cheer me. How sweet is that?

That brings me to Lent. This year I have decided to give up puddings for two reasons. Firstly, I think I often eat puddings, not because I’m hungry but because I just crave something sweet as a bad habit. I’d like to break the habit but since breaking a habit takes restraint, this will help me grow the discipline that Lent intends you to. Lastly, the time I would spend eating pudding can be spent praying, as I did when I fasted the internet recently.

Are you giving anything up for Lent?

 

Love Katie x


Oh boy do I have a lot to tell you! I have quite a few blog posts stored up in the tattered notebook in my mind which I hope I can transfer onto screen in the coming week. This post, however, as the name suggests, will focus on an extraordinary experience I had this week.

This week I went back to lectures after the long exam period (there’s another there). As I’ve mentioned countless times before on here, I love studying. I am not like other students who hate going to lectures, I excitedly try ad soak up everything my lecturer has to say. Yes, I am a geek.

I had to spend all Sunday and most of Saturday in bed so I thought my body would be eager to get up and about by Monday morning. No deal. I woke up Monday morning feeling awful. Paul helped me struggle through breakfast and getting dressed, feeding me my favourite cereal and coffee. He is amazing, what a hero.  when he could see that it was becoming more and more evident that I was not going to be able to drive my mobility scooter to university (bare in mind we live less than 4 minutes away , I’ve timed it), he did what we should have done in the first place – prayed. this brought a smile to my face. I know that I have a God who always has my best interests at heart. I find it incredible that I could trust my Heavenly Father completely and yet forget to put my day in his hands.

Anyway back to the story. Paul placed his hands on me and prayed that I would not only manage to get to my lecture but also that I would be able to concentrate on what the lecturer was saying. Just over an hour later he picked me up from my first lecture of the day. I had a giant smile on my face.

“It was so good, I loved it. I felt fine and could take it all in. I think I took really good notes too” I told P, a bit too loudly.

I went to two lectures yesterday, one today and I managed 40 minutes of work this morning too. This is incredible. The cynics among you might think that I am just experiencing a placebo effect or something. I am not saying I am completely healed, I still need my painkillers, and I needed a nap yesterday too, but I cannot think of another word to describe what is happening other then ‘miracle’. I have not even been able to mange 10 minutes of concentration for over a month, I’ve tried so many times and now all of a sudden I can attend lectures and read journal articles. Amazing.

I don’t know whether this is a beginning of a complete healing or whether this partial healing will only last a set amount of time. I know that  I have a God who I am trust and if I put my life in his hands will use all the pain, exhaustion, frustration and tear for something great.

I decided to share this experience on here to bring you hope. I know many of my readers are sick themselves or maybe you’re in another type of situation that you need breakthrough in. I know this post might make you uncomfortable, there’s a lot of pain and emotion associated with healing. I know because I’ve been and am still going through it myself. The disappointment of not being healed can make you want to give up. It seems to take up too much energy to keep trusting and hoping. If we stop believing though, we give in, our sickness wins.

Bible says we are more than conquerors. If you put your trust in God, He might not take your life where you want it to go or might not intervene in the way you want Him to but you can be certain that His plan is the best plan. That’s why, even though I want to be well and healthy, I know that I am in the right place, I have complete faith in him.

If this answer to Paul’s prayer has taught me anything its that I need to pray every morning and put my day in his hands.

Love Katie x


Day one in the Davies (or should that be NaNoWriMo) household, Katie is writing… That was supposed to be said in the Big Brother voice, or at least that’s how it sounded in my head.

My novel has got off to a good start so far. I have managed to bang out 3809 words today and it’s only 7:50pm. This is due largely to the fact that my health is very, very bad today. I know that sounds like an oxymoron, all shall be revealed.

Today is one of those days where I feel like I have lived a week in twelve hours. My health has been up and down all days, some of the time, like now, I feel ok, my legs are aching so I’m stuck in bed, but I am able to write, even though I cannot concentrate on reading or studying. At some points of the day however, I have been desperate to fall asleep because I just felt so sick. I don’t really know how to explain the extreme exhaustion, pain and sickness, except to say that if my mum were near, I would cry like a baby for her to come cuddle me when I feel like that.

I have been alone almost completely all day so to ward off any depression and negative thought cycles, I have just kept my novel on my mind. I haven’t been well enough to write all of the time, but I have been thinking of Ally all day long, meaning that when I can write, I have so much in my mind my fingers can’t type fast enough.

When I woke up this morning, I felt so far away from being able to focus on anything, let alone begin a novel, but I had prepared for this with two age-old writer’s tools:

Morning pages

I have heard many names for this, but essentially I just wrote about something other than what I was working on. Some writers, as I did, write journals to wake up their creative mind. It’s like sport, you can try just running, but you’re more likely to do a lot better if you stretch your muscles and focus your mind on the task ahead.The first thing you write at the beginning of the day is likely to be the worst thing you write that day so it’s a good idea to not put that in your novel.

Music

Background noise, providing it is not too loud can help a writer get into the scene or into their character’s head. I am writing about an angry, hurt, and rejected woman so I flicked through my iPod to find all the music I used to listen to as a teenager when I was feeling that way. This immediately puts me in the right place to think and feel the way Ally does. Certain songs remind us of certain feelings, it’s a good idea to harness this for my writing. On the other hand, if I listen to Ben Howard, I am going to feel calm and happy. I haven’t used it yet, but I also downloaded an the Ambiance app, which has a huge library of different sounds. I am planning to use these for certain scenes. So for example, if my character is taking a country walk, I can create a playlist of various wildlife sounds to help my mind picture what is happening.

 

One of the things I want to do this month is to use my intense novel writing to try out different writing techniques. Today I used journaling to warm up, perhaps I’ll stick with that for about a week before moving on to something different. I am doing the same with where I write. I was able to get out of the house to go to the library to write for an hour today, which was great because I have never tried writing there before. It went well, I was free from distractions and comfy on the new sofas. I’m not sure I’ll be able to get to the library every day for a week but I’ll try going there to write a few times, before moving on to a new venue. Obviously I tried writing in my bed too, but that doesn’t count as an experiment since I always write here (yup I’m there right now). By the end of this month I should have a good idea about my writing habits- where and how I work best.

Have you got any writing techniques or venues you use or have heard of that I could try out?

Love Katie x

P.s. My new blogging buddy Amelia is NaNoWriMo rebel because she is using this month to continue with her memoir about life with cerebral palsy.She is posting the whole thing on her blog day-by-day. I read the first installment today and felt positive I had to share it with you, it is a fantastic first draft. Check it out here.

You can find out more about my novel  and keep up to date with my progress on my NaNoWriMo page.



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